Age and Experience
By Gael Chiarella Alba
Published Diva Toolbox (April 1, 2009)
I was recently asked what I might advise women to expect given economic crisis and my - ahem - previous experience with "hard times."
I appreciate the question, certainly, and can easily understand the implication that I've had my own share of them! At the age of 57 this is my second "recession"... I feel quite expert in some weird way. In the early 90's I was a divorcing suburban Mom with two kids and a house soon to be in foreclosure. Today I'm a successful woman business owner who still finds benefit in doing the very same things I did way back then, and I wouldn't give it up for the world.
Before I get to that though - a word on where I am now. I said I'm 57, an admission that sometimes has both men and women cringing as if I just hung out the dirty sox!
I do believe that those of us who are strong enough to do so must stand in our strength, and in our beauty, and stop that nonsense that younger is better! Younger isn't better - it's just younger. The stage is set for Wisdom to arrive through the days of our youth, and as we become the wise women we truly are, we must stand for that and not something shy and reticent.
In addition to protecting your right to be the age you are then, and the wisdom that you surely carry because of it, remember who you are and give of yourself to the women following in your footsteps. Have faith, and shine that light to those who look to you for some measure of security, for this most of all is the gift you can give.
In addition, my tried and true remedy for any age and stage of a woman's life include:
1 - Protect your credit. Protect your name
2 - Take care of your health and fitness. These are priority goals necessary to combat stress.
3 - Appreciate what you have - every day in every way. Relish relationships and sunsets and raindrops and fresh air. Use the good dishes.
4 - Allow that even when you can't see the forest for the trees...the forest is still there. The fabric of your life is winding it's way toward your own fulfillment. Create community and share.
5 - Honor the simplicity of everyday possibilities. I have had more great times at my own dinner table with friends and pot luck than all my wonderful restaurant memories put together (and I've been fortunate to have had plenty of those too!)
6 - Last - and not least - have faith. Practice for yourself whatever that means - but DO practice. Find time every day to meditate, pray, journal, breathe, commune and/or whatever keeps you in touch with the part of you that is infinitely safe no matter what.
For more thoughts on the subject check out http//gaelsyokibics.blogspot.com/ where I welcome your comments.
Blessings to all as you smile your most beautiful smile!
Gael
From divatoolbox @Yokibics http://tinyurl.com/cbznts
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PhillyFit Magazine
The Mindbody Fitness Column Ask Gael
Installment 1
Gael Chiarella
Are you confused about what kind of Mindbody Fitness class is right for you? Do you want to learn more about meditation? Are you wondering if any of this stuff can really help you in a practical sense (I personally like the ever popular motion - you really loose weight doing any of this stuff?) The questions keep rollin in, so I'm taking it on to answer your questions large and small, and help you figure it all out.
With the kind of experience under my belt to affectionately be called a pioneer in the field of Mindbody Fitness, I can see the problem. Now I'm not Methuselah mind you, so if I see the rise in the temperature of our fitness consciousness to be dramatic, then it has also been quick. Within the framework of just 40 short years, the fitness industry in America has gone from virtually non-existent to having enough permutations to support classes on every corner and certifications galore.
For those of you who remember Jack LaLanne on black and white TV being the exercise venue of choice, you know what I mean! This stuff is new to our culture and really just beginning to find its way. Add in the components of mindbody programming and things get confusing fast. Take yoga for example. The most frequently asked question I answered when I began my career was what's yoga? seriously!) Now you have to go out of your way to avoid it and just to confuse you, no two forms are alike.
While we're all thankfully getting in touch with our need for balance, with choice comes the need to define. So that "what's yoga" question is still a good one, for this particular form of mindbody fitness like many others is now recognized, but infrequently understood for its depth and its scope. Because we are so intent on our definition of fitness involving physical exercise, we've sort of lost the roots from which it has all come. "All roads lead to Rome" said the Romans and mindbody fitness is sort of like that. All yoga leads to yoking or that's the idea anyway.
There are eight limbs in the system, with only one of those limbs (asana) involving movement. Yet within that one limb there are many schools. The other seven limbs make up the body of the tree, or the whole of the practice. They involve breathing practices, mind clearing techniques, concentration exercises, consciousness raising, lifestyle choices, ritual practices, meditation techniques and the suspension of everyday consciousness into a blending with the divine source of joy. That's a far cry from a conversation limited to six-pack abs or thin thighs. I hear people comment "oh I can't do yoga, I'm too stiff!" You"re not supposed to do yoga in the first place! You're there to BE yoga! Experience, surrender, give in and find yourself, and in the process of finding yourself, you'll demonstrate ever increasing levels of health, flexibility, radiance and peace.
With all the forms and choices and schools out there now, what are some of the guidelines that you can use to find the class that's right for you? I've been fortunate (and dedicated) enough to have studied with many of our living yoga masters in their journey West, and I guarantee you they all say something similar but in very different ways.
So here's the deal. "if you want to engage in the true spirit of the work, beware when you hear someone say "MY way is the right way." No one way has a lock on all the goods. If you hit on a teacher who sounds holier than thou, run for the hills. Seriously. That hierarchy type of engagement is, in the end, quite the opposite of the mindbody fitness intended purpose.
The road you must take then, is the one that is the best fit for you
Whether you are drawn to tai chi, palates, yoga, flow class, mat class, meditation, sacred dance or that new "whatever", here is the best advice I can give you when sniffing out your own needs.
- Experiment! You are a participant in your own outcome. Get involved and enjoy what you're doing.
- The very purpose of mindbody fitness is to help you get in touch with your mind, body and spirit as one. Physical prowess is the result of the practice but not the primary goal. Peace and balance are the goals.
- Observe the results, but release your attachment to the specifics. You may never have thin thighs in this lifetime. That's alright.
- If it feels bad, pushy or competitive, then you're in the wrong place.
- Keep experimenting till you find the place that feels right to you AND the right teacher. Some people actually respond better to a more aerobic form of movement, others need more meditation or perhaps chanting. If you're used to kick-butt asana practice, please know it's not wrong to chant, just a different form of moving your bodymind using the vibration of sound. It's all matter of balance after all.
- Oh yes, the question about loosing weight doing this stuff (I didn't forget). Balance is the result of practicing any worthwhile mindbody fitness program. Balance affects the human system in all ways. Moods, sleep cycles, muscle tonus, and yes, weight. This is not about calorie counting as we have been taught to believe, but rather achieving homeostasis (the natural state of balance that your body is endlessly seeking) and once achieved your natural perfect weight is a given.
Next column I’ll discuss the advantages of adding meditation to your routine, and answer a couple of your questions. Write to AskGael@phillyfit.com
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PhillyFit Magazine
Mindbody Fitness Column: Ask Gael
Installment 2
I mentioned in my last installment addressing the advantage of adding meditation to your fitness routine. I am finding that there is a precursor to that without which the entire subject falls short.
The topic is CONTENTMENT, and boy is that a good one when it comes to performance, body image, or age.
What a wonderful topic! I think I'm an expert...and I can say this for sure: contentment does NOT depend on circumstance, nor is it somehow meant for the lucky few who seem to "have it all."
Far from it in my book.
Contentment relates to one single quality - an attitude that CAN be cultivated...one that relates to choice, and conscious agreement, and the observation of what IS.
Contentment is found in the joy inherent in simply being alive. Period.
You say you want something more complicated? That your particular circumstances have created a special dispensation from contented living? Ahhhh that's too bad. This is a device of the mind that says your view of things (being a certain way) is the right view of things - you know, the way things 'SHOULD' be! More comfortable somehow, or luckier. "If only..." blah blah. Here's a good question! What in heavens' name gave you the idea of that?? Suddenly death is not a part of life? Since when did the inhale stop depending on the exhale?
And who was it that said "simple" means "easy"? Not me, that's for sure!
In 1994, while living in NY I lost my 23 year marriage - one that had taken most of my quite tenacious emotional resource just to maintain. Upon that loss, my older son went off to school in Colorado and my younger son soon followed, shattering my lifelong dream of a close knit family. I soon lost much of my business, and then my house. Foreclosure can bite hard, but it was just another lesson in letting go.
Friends and family rallied and I never felt alone, but when my oldest suffered a severe injury and I had to go to Colorado, no one could REALLY help me at all. All that was left was what was with me all the while - life itself. MY life. You can call it spirit, consciousness, divinity, self-awareness, choice, the knowing of 'something more' or an understanding of the greater good. Whatever term you use, the feeling is the same. You have an over-riding and abiding APPRECIATION of being given another day to participate, WHATEVER the content! How dare we humans complain? How absolutely ungrateful we are to suck up the preciousness of life experience and then judge it to be somehow inferior! "Boy THAT was lousy" we say over and over. Well SO BE IT and so it becomes!
You want contentment? Then choose to live, and choose it with the fullness of every thought, emotion and desire. Take it all in, and in all of its glory. Take the "good" with the "bad" and stop complaining for heavens sake. OK, now breathe. Breathe again. Slow down. Look around. Smell,.. taste,.. touch,.. love. Rework your mind to SEE what you DO have rather than what you are missing. It is choice after all that will bring you the goods.
What then is the benefit of such Pollyanna thinking? You become attractive and enriched instead of victimized by circumstance, that's what. Opportunities occur. People arrive. Support unfolds. Miracles happen! Oh not like some mysterious weirdness, but miracles by design! Life really IS good - if you accept it on its own terms, not the crazy illusions of your imagination!
Today my son is fine and prospering at his career. My youngest has developed perseverance and a great aptitude for innovation. I have moved out of NY, bought a beautiful townhouse (on my own steam) and met the man of my dreams right here in my new Pennsylvania hometown. Our wedding will be the celebration of all that has come before and all that is yet to be. The times aren't "better" these days, just different. The contentment that life IS remains.
If I had to sum up a recipe for contentment using the old tried and true KISS method, it would be the following:
1. Change what you can
2. Release the need to change what you can't
3. Work on yourself in any and every way to develop the wisdom to know the difference.
Sound familiar? I'm not the first to say this, nor will I be the last. I'm just somebody who "gets it", and with joyful abandon, I say "yes"! Come on-board now...life is waiting...contentment is here, and the act of meditation is only a breath away.
Next installment we'll address specific skills that can increase the meditative quality of any program.
Smile-on!
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One Woman’s Journey toward Yoga
By Gael Chiarella RYT
Founder of Yokibics
Published in The Hofstra University Faculty News
In the mid 70's I was right out of college and my life as an "adult" was about to begin. I had a job, a wonderful boyfriend, a dream and a desire. I was going to continue my education, get my doctorate in psychology, and then get married, raise my kids, and be happy.
Psych studies intrigued me! The minds capacity to help or to hinder left me endlessly wanting more skills, more know-how, and greater expertise. I wanted to help my fellow man and really make a difference. Well, seek and thou shall find. In my case, I got an apprenticeship at Creedmore State Psychiatric Center. What a journey! Even the sounds in that place spelled agony. The thing was, there was no skill, tool, or technique I'd been taught that seemed to make things much better there. And I wasn't being taught what I needed to know while continuing my education in school either. Frustrated and disillusioned, I knew there had to be more.
For balance, I'd head out to a dance class, or study with my martial arts teacher and I really loved to ski hard.
It took just a couple of years till I felt the first twinges of pain. My back was often tender. My knees "went out." I looked busy and successful, with a house and two kids besides all the rest "if only this nagging in my body would just go away"
Pain dragged me to my initial visit with the doctor, who offered the dreaded diagnosis of "overuse injuries." How could this be? I had been encouraged - applauded - for my skill in classical ballet from the age of 5! Next there was gymnastics, sports, aerobic dance. I worked hard. I was good. And I was still so young! Then lurking behind my pain was the singular fear - "how was I going to find my way if I couldn't even move?"
A friend recommended yoga. Now, you have to realize that yoga in the 70's and 80's was weird territory. I had taken some classes at my local Y a few years before, and thought the teacher there was out of her mind. She talked endlessly about herbal tea and nirvana, and the movements were so awfully SLOW! Nonetheless, with the specter of knee surgery, and the recommended back brace looming, I decided to take the plunge again.
I had heard that yoga could open a person to some life altering experiences. I also knew that there was a mental component to the practice, I just didn't think I'd get there drinking tea.
Skeptically, I set out to find freedom from my pain. The first of my new teachers was masterful. As he invited the class to breathe, he said to me - off handedly, mind you - that the breath I was taking was only survival breathing. Yup, just enough to keep me from dropping dead!
Now, there's an interesting thought... and it felt reassuring on some level to have the awareness that I had a choice in the matter. It dawned on me that the practice of conscious breathing, pranayama, was actually the relationship we have with energy, and that I had the possibility, indeed the invitation, to become a far more conscious, awake and aware partner with LIFE! My previous self was looking at others, helping others, whatever-ing others. This new self was looking inward, and it was a completely unique experience.
Over time, as I began to breathe with my pain, the most amazing thing happened. It began to shift, to pulse, to dim, and then fade.
I was hooked! What better, more fulfilling, practical study could I engage in? This was the study of the infinite possibilities inside of ME!
That moment of realization changed my life direction. I switched my area of schooling from mind, to bodymind. The postural practices of asana, or hatha yoga, and the breath practices of pranayama slowly brought me into relationship with the six additional branches of yoga that comprise a life study.
Called "The Eight Limbs", they are:
- Asana, the practice of physical postures leading to health, flexibility, balance and strength in each of the body's systems.
- Pranayama, specialized breath techniques that increase the capacity of the body to experience radiant health and super-conscious states of awareness
- Yama, the practice of clarity and truthfulness and cleaning up negative thinking.
- Niyama, cleaning up your outer environment, creating sacred space and honoring the rituals that connect you with Nature and the Divine.
- Prathyahara, releasing the need for constant stimulation, entertainment and sense satisfaction.
- Dharana, the practice of concentration, mental strength and focus.
- Dhyana, mindful meditation becoming the observant witness who truly lives the present moment.
- Samadhi, the eternal oneness you feel with any and all aspects of life when pure love is experienced.
It was in the presence of all eight limbs that I found the answer to my quest.
It was a quiet transition, a light, gentle breeze, but I recognized it when it happened. I found how to live.
My life work has changed dramatically since that first introduction. I took bold steps into the unknown and created the career of my dreams. I had to let go of people and beliefs that stood in the way. I had to look crazy to some, unrealistic to others. I certainly had to withstand the tests that were planted firmly on the path, but my pain is gone, my children are safe, and in my 30 years of practice, I've come up with some interesting insights from a life that continues to be well lived.
- Wherever you go, there you are (you’ve heard this before) and there is nothing more important in life than getting to know yourself.
- Breath IS life! Take in as much as you can, and let go with ease.
- Your thoughts are a choice. So is what you do with them.
- Make time for miracles. It’s always easier to just open the door than to have it beaten down.
- Listen to your body. Feelings of peace and well-being will show up as health. Negative or conflicted feelings will manifest in symptoms.
- You each have your own unique genius. You can best access its' wisdom in the quiet moments, so learn to meditate, and listen up!
- There is no better than Here - just different.
- Being is different than Having. You can BE whatever you desire when you simply choose to be.
- Release your need to understand. You can use technology before you understand how the circuits are wired. It's the same with yoga. Just do it.
- Yoga is a practice. Practice makes perfect. Without practice, it's just a thought, so get in gear and begin your practice now.
May the road rise to meet you, and the wind be always at your back.
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Mind Yourself at the Table
Published Demo Dirt
Written by Galia Myron Wednesday, 19 August 2009 14:11
Yoga and mindful eating may prevent weight gain and shed pounds.
As experts seek out new ways to fight the obesity epidemic, looking to an ancient practice for answers may be the key to battle excess weight, experts say. Mindful eating, associated with regular yoga practice, has proven to help prevent middle-age weight gain in normal weight people and overweight individuals shed extra pounds, research says.
A recent study confirms what previous research presented that increased body awareness, particularly an improved sensitivity to hunger and satiety, may better explain yoga's positive effects on weight management than the calorie-burning from the of the activity itself.
"In our earlier study, we found that middle-age people who practice yoga gained less weight over a 10-year period than those who did not. This was independent of physical activity and dietary patterns. We hypothesized that mindfulnessa skill learned either directly or indirectly through yogacould affect eating behavior," researcher Alan Kristal, Dr.P.H, said in a public statement.
Kristal is the associate head of the Cancer Prevention Program in the Public Health Sciences Division at the Fred Hutchinson Cancer Research Center, located in Seattle, WA.
"These findings fit with our hypothesis that yoga increases mindfulness in eating and leads to less weight gain over time, independent of the physical activity aspect of yoga practice," explained Kristal, who is also a professor of epidemiology at the University of Washington School of Public Health.
"Mindful eating is a skill that augments the usual approaches to weight loss, such as dieting, counting calories and limiting portion sizes. Adding yoga practice to a standard weight-loss program may make it more effective," he added.
These findings come at a time when the obesity epidemic, despite public concern, is continuing to grow, especially among children. The practice of yoga has increased in popularity over the last two decades, says Gael Chiarella Alba, founder of The Yokibics Institute for Personal Development.
"In the late 80s and early 90s, there were no yoga schools, Alba says. "Fitness at the time was more about big muscles, looking good, anorexia, and judgmental and unhealthy habits."
Things have changed, she tells demo dirt. "Today every fitness club that I have been to, has many yoga classes, and now there are yoga centers all over," she notes.
Popular culture uses the image of the yoga practitioner as a symbol of good health and clean living, Alba adds. "On Madison Avenue, it is now popular to use a yoga person to sell products," she maintains. "The picture of a yoga person is becoming fashionable to signify someone who is healthy and calm and on the right track."
Though there are eight limbs of yoga, not all of them speak to the physical body, Alba says. "It is like making a big pizza pie, when you choose to take a slice, you are entering into the whole pie, you eat one slice, but you can meander around the periphery of the pie," she explains.
America, Alba says, has truly embraced the physical aspect of yoga. "Right down the yoga-inspired lines of clothing," she remarks.
The tendency to eat mindfully is a natural outcome of practicing yoga, Alba explains, citing three tenets of yoga that are particularly useful in this area: pratyahara, santosa, and dharana.
Pratyahara refers to the control of the senses, withdrawing oneself form that which nourishes the senses. "When you engage in pratyahara you also enable yourself to appreciate the senses and do it mindfully," Alba explains. "If you study yoga, you are being asked to have a different relationship with your sense of taste and sense of nourishment, and you are engaged in nourishment in the same way you are engaged on your mat. It is a beautiful quality of appreciation, gratitude and joy."
"Santosa is the practice of contentment. In conscious eating, being in a good relationship with food begins with being content with the quality of the deliciousness of food on your plate, and being content with a normal or healthy amount of food on you plate," Alba continues. "Dharana means concentration and cultivating inner awareness with your own perceptions," she concludes. "If you study yoga, how can you not want to practice concentration while you are eating? If I am concentrating while eating, there is more time taken, less shoving, more chewing, and better digestion."
As worries about the economy continue plague Americans and gym and other recreational memberships wane, can yoga still be counted on as tool to fight the spread of obesity?
"The people I know who practice yoga actually save money because they don't need medical prescriptions," Alba explains. "As yoga becomes more popular, it also becomes easier to afford for the customer. If you want to start, just buy a mat, a DVD and go for it!"
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Fit for the Job
Will the athletic First Couple get Americans moving?
www.demodirt.com
January 26, 2009
Friends say she works out like a "gladiator," and political insiders say his pre-debate workouts were nearly as vital to his success as knowing his stuff. Michelle and Barack Obama, whose exercise habits have been widely noted, may well be one of the most athletic First Couples to ever set their sneakers into the White House.
With the U.S. facing record-high obesity statistics and skyrocketing health costs, the Obamas certainly set a good example to American citizens, many of whom claim they don't have the time, energy, or resources for fitness. Will people follow their lead? Many fitness experts hope so, and that the country will finally get moving in the right direction, in more ways than one.
Men's Fitness
magazine Editor-in-Chief Roy S. Johnson says that yes, President Obama will make a strong role model for Americans and he is setting a powerful example as one of the fittest-if not the fittest-Presidents in our lifetime. The magazine has recognized Obama twice for his devotion to good health, naming him one of the "25 Fittest Men in America" in 2005 and 2008.
Obama and his wife Michelle, Johnson says, are superb role models whether they are in or out of the gym. "They have already demonstrated their ability to do what great leaders do and that's set great examples," he explains. "How they handle themselves, how they handle their children, how they are with each other-they will influence the American public by setting the bar high, and being fit is certainly part of that."
The new President's admirably cool, calm demeanor, Johnson says, may be at least partially due to his unwavering dedication to exercise. "He takes care of his body and makes being fit a priority," he says. "The benefits of that are clear. He possesses clarity and a sense of calm that is one of the benefits of regular exercise. He is able to handle stress and part of his ability to stay calm in the midst of everything is because he spends time in the gym to work off that stress."
Obama's commitment to fitness, his energy and his drive, Johnson contends, mean more to Americans than his just having a healthy body. "The country has clearly demonstrated its desire for a fresh change, which starts with policy and tone but also, we want to say 'Hey, let's relax and have a president who looks cool and deals with it,'" he explains. "The country seems to be ready for a fresh take on leadership and he certainly is giving us that."
Keeping fit, he adds, is key to being a winner, no matter what one's line of work. "It is something we preach every day and month on our website [www.mensfitness.com]. We are ecstatic that we have a President that makes fitness a regular part of his life," Johnson tells demo dirt. "When you look good, you feel good, and that puts you in a better position to win. You become more fit mentally as well as physically, and you give yourself the opportunity to achieve."
And if the President can give himself that opportunity, maybe more people will follow his lead. "Yes, indeed, the workout habits of Americans will be affected by our new President and First Lady," agrees Kathi Casey, ERYT, CPI, also known as the Healthy Boomer Body Expert (
www.kathicaseypilates.com).
Casey says that Americans have fallen in love with First Couples before, and frequently emulate their style and fashion sense. It is natural for them to also be interested in, and follow, their fitness habits.
"As we all know, history repeats itself and many comparisons have been made regarding the Obamas and the Kennedys," Casey continues. "When the Kennedys were in the White House, women's fashions completely changed. Suddenly every woman was wearing pillbox hats, long, white gloves and dying her hair dark."
Yoga trendsetter Gael Chiarella Alba, president of Yokibics (www.yokibics.com), a NY-based yoga practice, agrees. "As a nation we are already deeply engaged in observing their speaking habits, their clothing choices, their hairstyles and their family values," she says.
"I think that it is not only possible, it is likely that if the first lady and President of the United States show America that they can keep a fitness routine, it will send the message that if they can, you can!" says L.A.-based personal trainer J.J. Flizanes, CPT, and director of wellness company Invisible Fitness (
www.invisiblefitness.com).
Flizanes also adds that as the couple influences fashion trends, fitness trends may soon follow. "From what I understand about our new President, I would only hope he would want to continue to be a role model in every way to the millions of people looking at him for inspiration," she says.
Casey compares the Obama celebrity influence to that of another well-loved, powerful African American who has focused on wellness. "When Oprah Winfrey recommends a book or a diet plan large percentages of households in America suddenly own that book or start that diet plan," she notes. "Currently we have both the First Family and Oprah Winfrey speaking up about the importance of exercise, proper diet and how these affect one's health, wealth and life."
Fitness professionals are excited that the First Couple is so health-oriented. "I can only be grateful-and amazed-at finally seeing the positioning of fitness at the top of our Nation's priorities via the personages of Barack and Michelle Obama," Alba says.
Like Johnson, she feels that their example reaches beyond fitness. "The Obamas are in the spotlight for being and doing all that is necessary to bring the nation back into balance so that we can have the result," she says.
Who will be most influenced by the Obama fitness regimen? The young people, who look up to them as role models, or their peers, who may readily identify with them? Perhaps even older adults?
Johnson maintains that the Obama image will definitely encourage men to take better care of themselves. "I certainly think men will be affected," he says. "The guy looks good, he looks good in a suit, he is cool, and he's got game on the basketball court."
Obama's contemporaries may be the most influenced, he says. "Forty-year-olds across America will see that as the new bar, the standard that is set. They will say to themselves, 'The Internet is buzzing because of his physique, then why can't I get a physique like that?'"
Casey says that she feels all age groups will be affected, but in different ways. "I believe that the over-50 population-of which I am a member-is a population that is interested in spending our 'retirement' in second careers that we love, and in remaining healthy and fit until we leave the planet," she explains, adding that this group also wants to avoid the health problems that its parents suffered, such as hip and knee replacements, osteoporosis, and Alzheimer's disease.
Of course, she adds, looking good doesn't hurt either. "I mean, really, Michelle Obama looks fabulous!" she says.
"Americans in their thirties and forties will attempt to add something from the Obamas' fitness plan into their own personal fitness plan," Casey contends.
Johnson agrees, saying that many may look at the Obama routine to integrate some of those habits into their own lives, and that even if they don't expect to emulate every move, the couple gives Americans "something to aspire to."
"Younger generations," Casey says, "will look to the Obamas for changes in many categories like health care, benefits such as reductions in premiums for disease prevention, and maintaining good health habits or credits for gym memberships."
As for the oft-cited reason for slacking off on one's workout routine-not enough time-will the pubic rethink that objection knowing that two of the busiest people in the world fit it into their schedules?
Perhaps, but don't count on it, says one fitness professional.
"The most common excuse made by people is that of insufficient time. It definitely will make some people realize that making time for fitness is possible for anyone, but it won't necessarily change anyone's habits," warns Stefan Pinto, a Miami-based fitness motivator, writer, model and television actor (www.pintofactory.com).
People who are motivated make the time, he argues. "Nothing will ever get accomplished, [such as] quitting smoking, losing weight, or writing a book, unless you are ready and willing-it doesn't matter how much time you have," Pinto maintains. "The intention and the desire must be there. Then the time will come naturally."
Yoga expert Alba agrees the Obamas exemplify that making that time starts from within. "Since 'be-do-have' is a time-tested formula for success in any endeavor, both have repeatedly reiterated that it begins with the individual," she says. "As President Obama calls on us for action as a nation-and as we respond with a resounding 'Yes we can!'-so too will all the actions required for balance as individuals fall into place, whether we realize it consciously or not. This includes becoming more fit."
Dr. Warren Willey, author of What Does Your Doctor Look Like Naked?: Your Guide to Optimal Health, does not want Americans to focus so much on exercise that they dismiss the importance of a proper diet. He names several factors, including having strong role models, as important keys to leading a healthy lifestyle.
"The health practices of our new leaders are a great encouragement to our country. Long-term compliance to exercise protocols has demonstrated that role models, along with a low probability of injury (low impact, low-to-moderate intensity, and shorter duration), group participation, emphasis on variety and fun (games used as a proxy for exercise), use of personal goals and contracts, support network (friends, family, and spouse), and monitoring of progress are essential for success," he wrote demo dirt in an email interview.
"It is essential however, that our President and his family's eating habits are also recognized as a very important key to their overall health," Willey notes. "Dietary and nutritional practices are the key to any successful weight loss and health attainment attempt, more so than exercise habits."
Of course, Johnson notes, with Obama's struggle to quit smoking and his French fry habit, even our fit new President can stand to make a few improvements.
"No one is perfect," he says.
However, Johnson adds, it is important that as Americans work to achieve their fitness goals, that they keep in mind that experts, including those at Men's Fitness, want people to enjoy a healthy balance. "We preach everything in moderation," he says. "Live your life." , want people to enjoy a healthy balance. "We preach everything in moderation," he says. "Live your life."
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@Yokibics Keep up your INCREDIBLE work guiding & motivating people to a MUCH healthier & happier way of living! You are a difference maker!
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Hi - would love for you to consider being a host on Diva Toolbox Radio - contact me at janet@divatoolbox.com if you are interested!
BinaShah
Any way I can download one of your CD products from Pakistan?
babzilicious
@Yokibics And, I love - LOVE - your AM/PM Yoga meditations. Absolutely beautiful.
L0tusFl0wer
@Yokibics sure! whats your facebook? again, i LOVED the class.im starting my 200 hr certification monday in Vinyasa style
BinaShah
@Yokibics Guru-ji! Attended a power yoga class this morning and listened to "The Power of Caring" in shavanasana. Many blessings!
L0tusFl0wer
@Yokibics hi GAEL. I TOOK YOUR CLASS AT HOFSTRA UNIV IN 2002 I THINK IT WAS.THANK U FOR SUCH great leadership!
fitbet
@Yokibics You are so welcome! I really enjoyed reading your blog post. Namaste
BinaShah
@Yokibics Guru-ji! Attended a power yoga class this morning and listened your CD track "The Power of Caring" in shavanasana! Many blessings!
jcchancellor
@Yokibics Hi Gail! Thanks for the interview, I had a blast and can't wait to see the results
BLOG COMMENTS
Your blogs are like a breath of fresh air Gael!
Katie Pearlman 0609 via blog invite
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Mary said...
Thank you
lavoll1@gmail.com
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Kudos! The blog is wonderful - and truly done in your Spiritual Warrior style. I'm so proud of the work you are doing - and even more so how you are doing it. I am becoming a David Allen fan myself and realizing that it's time for me to dig out and simplify. I've just finished writing two new workshops The Positive Leader and Power UP! and now it's time to clean UP!
As always my dear, you are a true inspiration.
Love light and blessings on the journey. Joanna
www.customercarecoach.com
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Yokibics said... “What a guy"!
Gael,
Why thanks! You're very kind. Made my day!
Have I asked you to look at Alltop, my news web site? It's a digital
magazine rack of popular topics.
These topics might interest you:
http://inspiration.alltop.com/
http://leadership.alltop.com/
http://women.alltop.com/
Let me know if you want your blog in any topic.
All the best to you,
Guy Kawasaki
Galia said...
Oh my gosh, Gael, I remember dodgeball and you are spot-on with your observation on it!
What a great post...I especially like the part about what one of your first mystic teachers taught you about if you want something, to give it to someone else and it comes back to you. Really nice, and I find that it generally holds to be true.
Looking forward to reading more from you!
OzAlba said...
There should be a larger button for leaving comments.
YOU ARE AWSOME
Anonymous said...
So true my friend.
lizzie said...
Gael - I hear you loud and clear!. Namaste (the weirdness in me salutes the uniqueness in you) .... lizzie
Magda said...
LOVE IT! Thank your for mentioning the topic! : )
Amazume said...
Gael, dear one,
Thanks so much for the service you provide here. I LOVE, LOVE, LOVE this sharing of truth in the words you channeled so eloquently. My heart rejoices at this reminder to keep 'pulling the roots out of the mud rut' we may find ourselves in. I am so into this already, and how wonderful to get a daily helping of steps to practice the eight limbs of yoga, just to be able to reflect on how I am (doing - being). This blog is now part of 'my yahoo' and passed on to 'fellow GoddSses'.
Lotsa Love,
Nell ;-)
Anonymous said...
Hey Yoga Lady
That is a beautiful post.
Picture is not bad either. Especially the yoga chick.
AWESOME!!
:)
Snake Charmer said...
I LOVE this pose! It makes me feel so empowered and connected! I am sooo glad I found your blog it's sooo awesome -I cannot wait to explore some more! :)
Stasia said...
What a great reminder before the season of "catalog overwhelm," Gael. Thank you so much.
Just wanted to let you know that I have used your meditation CDs for many years and love them. Thank you for creating them.
November 7, 2009 5:23 PM
Nancy L Wolf said...
Gael, this was esp. beautiful to me, as you know my husband is dying from cancer…Thank you for this site and as always your beauty in how you see the world. ps: I was always "different" too! Love Nancy Wolf
FACEBOOK COMMENTS
Chris Chiarella
mom this pic is awesome
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I love reading your posts Gael.
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Robyn Evans
Once again you offer a steady grace in the midst of life's storms and a reminder that faith IS.
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Got a "monkey on your back?" Special skin creme formulation is getting ready for market. What fun! ;)
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I need whatever this is. Love the figure!
February 4 at 11:46am
Tracey Golda-Paradiso Best essay on aging/entering the mid-years ever from Gael Chiarella Alba: "LOVE your life! Work hard to stay healthy. We'll need your voice to be strong when u enter the wisdom years." @Yokibics http://ow.ly/1nKJxD
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CD FEEDBACK
Michael Bentley from UK - nice letter.
-----Original Message-----
From: "Michael Bentley" <michaelangie@hotmail.co.uk>
Sent: Sunday, February 28, 2010 9:10am
To: bob@yokibics.com
Subject: RE: Your Order Meditations for Emotional Freedom
Hello Bob
Many thanks for your kind message. I really appreciate the offer re downloading the album, but I think I would still prefer to receive the CD by post if that's okay with you.
A friend introduced me to Gael's recordings by buying me 'Living Peace' as a Christmas present. I loved it straight away! I have a debilitating chronic pain condition which sometimes triggers anxiety and depression, so spend a lot of time doing meditation and deep relaxation. Living Peace really does help me to relax, and there's something about Gael's voice and words which are also very calming and comforting. She doesn't sound 'false' or phoney at all, and it feels very much as if she is a friend helping you through difficulties. I play Living Peace and Living Joy on CD, and also have them on my MP3 player so I can play them to calm and relax me before going to sleep.
I'd be really happy for you to pass on to Gael my positive comments. I have a growing collection of relaxation and meditation CDs, and Gael's are certainly some of the best.
Many thanks to you both for making these lovely recordings. I'll be ordering the others too before long, although with my pain condition I probably won't be able to do the more energetic yoga ones!
Take care, and warm wishes.
Michael
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Hi Bob and Gael!
Just received all my goodies from you and am soooo excited to begin a" conscious" journey! Many thanks for expanding my order to include cds and the wonderful treat of essential oil cream! I just discovered that my best friend of 11 years {my dog Sophie}, has swollen lymph glands. I will begin this evening to apply the cream along with Reiki, as well as ordering your healing book.
The thought of a phone conversation with Gael and all my new material is surrounding me with hope and peace!
Namaste' Judy
From: "Judy Rogers" <Judy.Rogers@Glenbeigh.com>
Sent: Tuesday, February 23, 2010 12:54pm
To: bob@yokibics.com
Subject: RE: Your Order jarogers15@hotmail.com
Hi Bob!
I am honored by your swift personal attention! I have been the biggest fan of Gael's, on a daily basis, for many years! Personally and professionally, I am the fitness coordinator at Glenbeigh Hospital , which is an inpatient drug and alcohol rehabilitation center. I use the meditations as relaxation following every yoga class. Every day, I am rewarded with the patients gratefulness for introducing them to Gael's gentle insight and soothing presentation. They leave here on a mission to continue their journey with her. {Em. Freedom #4 is very inspiring, one of my favorites }!
I was blessed to happen upon one of her cds while browsing in a bookstore, it is the old story about when the student is ready, it jumped into my hands and I was on a roll. They changed my life and provided much comfort.
The first movement dvd I ordered did not work properly so I did the best I could with it. Sometime later, out of the blue, you sent me another one, just because? I have always regretted not letting you know of my appreciation for that. I was sure you would be much to busy to notice.
My intention for ordering the workbook and manual was to learn about what it means to be a spiritual warrior? Planning a vacation in April and thought it was about time to check this out {while spending time on the beach}. I am open and willing to suggestions.
The new fundamentals is wonderful!!! I am having trouble getting it onto my mp3, reason for ordering cds.
Many thanks to you and your amazing wife!!
Sincerely,
Judy
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Thank you so much. Your guided meditations are magical. As I said I'm an attorney, married, 2 kids, one kid with moderate autism. I live in Bellmore , commute to Queens. Have some major marital problems.
I'm 42, in all my research I found that meditating is probably the ultimate thing to help solve your challenges. But its hard to learn-very hard to learn. My mind goes in many different directions.
I have to go (to marital therapy!!) I have more thoughts I'd like to message you again
Thanks
Ken
saw on your website you offer mediation sessions for $65- what does that entail? Thank you for accepting me as a friend on facebook. Im a big fan of your guided mediation cds.
Ken Yilmaz
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Ken Yilmaz Gael , I cant believe you have your center in LI. Im from Bellmore , LI. Im an attorney and am looking for solutions to unclutter the mind. I've researched many selfhelp books/ audio CDS/ DVDS/ meditation books/cds. I've found your guided mediations the best so far, so I may be making an appt. for a mediation session/training with you.
Anyway NAMASTE you've been generous as I view you as a great teacher of mediation which I believe is more important than wayne dyer, deepak chopra- so I view you as a star in the mediation field and cant believe you are taking your time to help me
NAMASTE KEN
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From: Linda Peduto <lindapeduto@yahoo.com>
Miss you! Loved your CDs on emotional freedom. Listened TWICE going to and from Hartford!.
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Wednesday, February 3, 2010 2:30 PM
"Felty Wool" <felty01@yahoo.com>
MANY BLESSINGS TO YOU AND THANK YOU FOR TAKING ANY INTEREST IN ME, A TOTAL STRANGER...I CANT TELL YOU HOW MUCH IT MEANS TO ME. YOUR WORK ON THIS EARTH IS INVALUABLE AND I AM SURE THERE ARE MANY OTHERS LIKE ME WHO JUST HAVE HAD THE SAME HELP FROM YOU BUT DIDNT LET YOU KNOW...
I WILL KEEP YOU UPDATED AS I FILTER THROUGH THIS STAGE OF MY LIFE ..ANS AS YOUR WORDS AND GENTLE CALMING VOICE ON THE CDS CONTINUE TO POINT ME IN THE RIGHT DIRECTION. NAMASTE AND PEACE . NAN
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From: Felty Wool <felty01@yahoo.com>
Subject: 2nd chakra help?
To: gael@yokibics.com,
bob@yokibics.com
Date: Tuesday, February 2, 2010, 9:24 AM
You both have been so kind to me in
the past and your Cd's have been such a tremendous
help.. but as the time goes on... and we are so grateful
he is still here and not suffering( although many troublesome
other things associated with
being bed bound for 8 months)I am finding myself slipping
into depression .I was listening to fundamentals of
emotional freedom and it struck me that my 2nd chakra is
just holding and storing too much pain and sorrow and
information. I don't know what to do.. its not a typical
situation and I wonder if you have any thoughts on
how to "not care too much" in a situation like this?
its very confusing. I am starting to have stomach
irritation, headaches and panicky feelings when I am out of
the house away from him when the RN is there. I was doing
so
well and being so strong.. its like it just washed over
me.
If there is anyway you can help me I would be so grateful.
Fri is our anniversary.. 17 years. thanks, Nan
"Lately it occurs to me... what a long strange trip
it's been!"
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I've recently purchased "Meditations for Emotional Freedom". Your CD has changed the course of my life. After taking anti-depressants for two years, I finally quit the drugs last summer. I've been seeking a more honest and natural way of getting out of this rut that I've been stuck in for the past few years. Your CD is helping me to a higher path--and a better way of living. I'm new to meditation and you have a gift of helping neophytes like me. Thank you.
Keith Burnett
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Subject: loving the new cd's!
From: "Felty Wool" <felty01@yahoo.com>
Date: Mon, August 3, 2009 7:00 am
To: bob@yokibics.com
I got a chance to start to use the Cd's the other morning. I listened to the mini meditations
which were excellent and then the one on trauma which was very awesome. that one will be listened to many more times. it is so perfect for what I am going though!
Also when I did my yoga exercises I played the music and it is so soothing and beautiful.
I am now going to listen to some of the others.
Thanks again so much and hope much happiness is in your day.
Nan
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"Amazing that you should mention the emotional freedom!! I was just going to email you about it and
that is why I turned on the computer!earlier this am I had a chance to listen to the first part on
belief. there is no way to tell you how meaningful that is for me..how much a part of my journey
that cd is going to become. ... so much more but I will leave it there...I had to listen to that
part twice and as always I listen to each track many times as I get many different insights each
time. somehow, in this great mystery of life , I have been connected to just what I have been
looking for. the part about challenging you previous belief systems..well I just have no true
words to say about what they means to me..on so many levels.
I cant wait to go thru the rest//but will have to as now is the time to get ready for the aides
etc. I will try and order the cd from your site as right now I am not able to spend more than
that.PLs send me the correct website where
I can purchase it. much grateful energy your way.. Namaste, Nancy
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(FB)
Peipei says, "Is this the Gael of Body and Soul Conscious eating.... if so, thanks soo much.".
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To Gael
I just had to email and say thanks for creating such a wonderful work. I knew it was great for me, but I have now given it to other people and they also are finding it great so I think it can reach a lot of different kinds of people...the one that really impressed me was my mom – she was having such a tough week with caring for her elderly parents and struggling to keep up with all that she felt inundated by, and when she got the cd and tried it, she finally was able to see the positive things right there in that situation and get a reprieve by being able to let go it's just opened up her mind to all kinds of things that will help her so much and has literally helped her turn things around! I've been wishing she could do something like this for years, and now the door has finally been opened!
One of the greatest things in there is the accessibility of the message to let go of judging. So often, the idea of "not judging others" is heard by people as yet another an admonition that only gives rise to defensiveness you really are able to reach people with the way it's presented on the meditation as an invitation to something so positive in the meditations amazing! That's just one example, there's so much in there.
So, I thank you and also commend you! You've really sent out a gift with this one.
Lynne
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Conscious Eating beats Unconscious Eating any day!, Nov. 15, 2005
Reviewer: viktor_57 "viktor_57" (Fairview, Your Favorite State, USA)
I'm a busy guy, no different than any of us stuck in this rat race we call modern life. My wife told me to listen to this "Conscious Eating" CD because she was worried about my eating habits. Basically, I practice the "grab 'n go" diet, which is basically to grab anything convenient and fast, and then eat it on the go. Yeah, I've gained weight, and my blood sugar keeps getting higher. If I'm not careful, my doc tells me I'm looking at adult onset diabetes, chronic hypertension, and general decrepitude. I figured I got nothing to lose, so I listened to the CD.
I was a little nervous at first, not because conscious eating smacked of new age mumbo jumbo, but because the last thing I tried with "conscious" in the title, "Conscious Cuisine" by Gary Neff, left me traumatized (see my review). The first "Conscious Eating" CD has a spoken introduction and 5 guided meditations on the principles and practice of conscious eating. The book that comes with the CDs also explains the ideas behind conscious eating, which apparently comes from Yokibics, a trademarked application of yogic and chakric principles towards mind/body/spirit health as developed by Gael Chiarella. Ms. Chiarella's voice is very soothing on the meditations, and I began to feel more centered and calm as she talked me through new ways of perceiving hunger, food, and my relationship to both.
After repeated listening of the first CD and thorough reading of the book, I sat down for my first meal as a conscious eater. I put on the second CD and filled the dining room with the soothing music of Silvia Nakkach to put me in the right mood. I prepared a very simple meal of mostly raw vegetables with some humus and pita bread. I picked up a sliver of carrot, felt its connection to me, and began to chew with more relaxation and gratitude than I have ever felt while eating or doing anything else, for that matter. I felt a warm glow as the full energy of that carrot spread within me and filled me with such pleasure and contentment that I began to weep with sheer joy. I ate a cauliflower floret and again found myself overwhelmed with feeling, causing more tears to stream down my face. I only managed to eat three more morsels during that meal, but felt more fulfilled and satisfied than from consuming any banquet or buffet.
My wife barely recognizes me now, not just from all the weight I have lost, but also from my newfound spiritual awakening. She cannot eat with me, however, as she finds my tears of joy and gratitude "weird and unseemly." I tell her I can't help myself, and that my reactions are purely spontaneous, but she continues to eat in a separate room from me. I don't mind. My new relationship with food consumes all my focus, so our arrangement works well.
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